J.

As we grown up, we met different people, went through different experiences, had different obstacles. Things changed, people changed, and you changed. One can't deny that he or she never changed, because when we're in different situation, when we're surrounded by different people, when we went through different experiences, sometimes its not that we wanted to changed, but we're forced to. Forced to change ourselves, to adapt to new environment, to fit in to the new crowd. It's pretty normal for us to do that.

Some people, they might be good friends when they're in school, hang out everyday, during recess, after school, or on a saturday co-curriculum. but why couldnt they last till forever? I always believe that, if they're meant to be good friends, no matter what, they will be. no hatred, no jealousy, no envious, no suspicion, no backstabbing. the only reason why they've turned into enemy, is because they dont love each other enough, as friends. they dont forgive, they hold grudges against each other, they dont trust their friend enough, and most importantly, the choose to do that.

Some people feel bad, some people feel regret, some dont.

at the end of the day, it's how much you value a relationship / friendship. nothing last forever. even a relationship need time and effort to keep it going. if you value the relationship enough, you would do all sorts of thing to keep it alive, and make your friends happy. it always involve two person or more. if only one of them doing it, of course he or she gonna get tired of doing so much, but getting nothing in return.

Think twice, do you want to save this relationship? Do you value it more than your ego? Do you love your friends?

x,

J